Being on the Team vs. Being a Teammate
[Thoughts NOT just for athletes….]
- Compiled by John Leonard from InSideOut Coaching by Joe Ehrmann
[Editor’s Note: When I was a swim parent (and not coaching at the time) I always felt like I was part of the team… but in retrospect, this article reminds me I wasn’t always a good teammate. I wish I had thought about it a little more back then. Guy Edson]
Being on the team benefits your personal goals and ambitions.
Being a teammate benefits the goals and ambitions of your team and your teammates.
Being on the team can make you a bystander.
Teammates intervene in the lives and actions of their teammates.
Being on the team involves personal effort.
Being a teammate involves the efforts of every player.
Being on the team means doing what is asked of you.
Being a teammate is doing whatever is needed for the team to succeed.
Being on the team can involve blaming others and making excuses.
Being a teammate involves accepting responsibility, accountability, and ownership of the team's problems.
Being on the team makes you "me-optic," asking what's in it for me?
Being a teammate makes you "we-optic," asking what's in it for us?
Sometimes players on the team are drawn together by common interests;
teammates are drawn together by a common mission.
Sometimes players on a team like one another;
teammates respect one another.
Sometimes players on a team bond together because of a shared background or compatible personalities;
teammates bond together because they recognize every player is needed to accomplish the goal of the team.
Sometimes players on a team are energized by emotions;
teammates energize one another out of commitment.
What Makes A Nightmare Sports Parent -- And What Makes A Great One
This article offers advice to parents which includes how to best support their athletes as well as how to keep the parent-athlete relationship unique from the coach-athlete relationship. A must read for ALL sports parents!
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Resources from USA Swimming
USA Swimming has an excellent Parents section on their website.